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I have been reflecting on the 'why' around crossdressing for many years now. In my research I have come across many types and styles of crossdressing. For some it is a social activity that they share with a few discreet friends. For others there is a defined arousal point that only this activity can reach.
So is this wrong or not? Yvonne @ Yvonne's place argues that the illusion is based around fantasy. Albeit a temporary one. I challenge this notion of pure fantasy. I think crossdressing, in particular the varying facets in today's world from the metrosexual revolution to more feminine clothing design is based around a deep seeded desire to be softer as men. How many times have you heard your spouse or girlfriend wish you could be more understanding, more gentle, less hard. Many would love to integrate themselves in a more whole way. The challenge for you today is why don't men more fully express themselves?
So is this wrong or not? Yvonne @ Yvonne's place argues that the illusion is based around fantasy. Albeit a temporary one. I challenge this notion of pure fantasy. I think crossdressing, in particular the varying facets in today's world from the metrosexual revolution to more feminine clothing design is based around a deep seeded desire to be softer as men. How many times have you heard your spouse or girlfriend wish you could be more understanding, more gentle, less hard. Many would love to integrate themselves in a more whole way. The challenge for you today is why don't men more fully express themselves?
